I read once that the most important thing in a relationship is вЂhow the person makes you feel about yourself. and charismatic types are so charming, you would never see the bad side until the end was near. I think though because they are compulsive pathological liars, you can fall in love with the fakeвЂ¦. Whilst the sociopath does fear exposure, it is probably not a good idea to actually do this, as the sociopath would retaliate, it really would backfire on you and cause further damage to your own life. As the sociopath, in defence of himself, would only say the most awful things about you. It might be a temptation, if he has gone off with someone else, to expose him to the next person to вЂsave herвЂ™ but this would likely backfire on you. As the outcome would be lies, smear campaigns, and it would be your own good name which would be ruined. It is never a good idea to expose a sociopath. He would say things like вЂyou are crazyвЂ™ or anything else that he could say, to show himself in a good light, and you in a bad one. If you were to expose him, he would lie, and would discredit you, say anything about you, to remove theВ likelihoodВ of being exposed. To live off of others, to get things for free, to have others do the work for him, and provide his supply. If you were to expose him, he would lose control, and wouldnвЂ™t be able to deceive other people, others would be suspicious of him, and if things were not to work out with you, he would find it more difficult, or more work, to find an alternative source for supply. They are chameleons and are capable of being anything to anyone, dependent on what the person wants. This is how they win people over, by manipulation, compulsive lying, and deception. Sociopaths fear exposure because they are accepted by people because of their charismatic charm. This is why they feel jealous, possessive, paranoid, because they fear losing control. Not only, that they own, but additionally, you are a part of them. To the sociopath, they see you as somebody that they own. He will say things which will hold you back, or keep you attached to him (see above), he has to keep control of you, to have any sense of control over his own life. You will notice the things that he will do to keep control. This is why the sociopath tries to retain control at all costs. Which would mean that he would need to start again. To him you are the source for his own supply, so he fears losing you, and therefore losing his supply. Remember that the sociopath sees YOU as the source for supply, ordinarily a person provides for themselves, and if they are generous, they provide for others too.ДЄ sociopath is different to this. Because the sociopath has a lack of life plan and goals in his own life, he needs to control your life. The sociopath fears losing control, as it is the one thing that keeps him focused. A sociopath only truly cares for his/herself. Protecting himself, and his own needs, is most important of all. He will not care who is hurt in the process. Because he will go to great lengths to ensure that he does not lose control, or get exposed for who he truly is. You need to be aware of these two things. Th ings that the sociopath will do to prevent losing control Wearing a mask, and creating a false persona.Things that the sociopath will do to prevent exposure He does this so that if you do report him to others they will not believe you. He will make out to others that you are crazy. He will tell lies about you, conduct smear campaigns, make threats against you, and will even stalk and harass you. He will do all that he can to instil fear into you, so that you will not expose him. If the relationship has finished, and he fears that you will expose him. He will go to great lengths and be very creative to hide his real true self. A sociopath is capable of compulsive pathological lying, manipulation and deception. He will go to great lengths to cover for himself. He fears that people will find out who he really is. The second thing that a sociopath fears is exposure. The one thing that will make a sociopath вЂlose itвЂ™ is for them to lose control. Oh yes, they will pretend to be very laid back, life and soul and relaxed, but underneath this exterior is a simmering desire for control. A sociopath needs to have control over everything and everyone. Press their buttons, take away their control, and you will see the mask slip, and the melt down occur. One of the biggest fears for a sociopath is to lose control. They thrive on finding your weaknesses and therefore exposing your fears (although you will not be aware of this in the beginning when you are disclosing your fears to him) when he is playing Mr Perfect, and Mr Soulmate and Mr love of your life.Д«ut sociopaths do fear. This is simply because they do not really care about anybody but themselves.

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